It's easy to think that you love when everything is going smoothly in a relationship. But what's more important is the period when difficulties begin.
◀️You love if during disagreements your goal is to find a compromise, and not to identify a winner.
◀️You love if you don't take your partner's words with hostility, and don't doubt them. Don't keep score. Don't hold a grudge. Don't deprive your partner of your love as punishment.
◀️You love if, first of all, you seek to understand, and not to be understood. You listen and appreciate what is shared with you. And you don't immediately dump your own problems.
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