Let go of those who are not your people...

This is not a position of pride, but of adequacy. Stop having difficult conversations with people who do not want to change. Stop being in the company of people who are indifferent to your presence. Stop giving love and energy to people who are not ready to love you. It will steal your time, energy and sanity.

When you start living your life with joy and interest, not all people will stay with you. This does not mean that you need to change. If the people you spend a lot of time with insult you, forget you or ignore you, stop offering them your energy. You are not for everyone, not everyone is for you. Life becomes a Gift when you find those few with whom you can have a genuine friendship, love or relationship. There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them want to meet you on the same level, with a similar vibration, values ​​and vision. The longer you stay with people who use you as a cushion, a backup plan, or a therapist, the further away you are from your people.

Maybe if you stop investing and initiating, the relationship will end, some people will forget you completely. Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will go silent for days or weeks. Maybe if you stop investing, the love will disappear. It doesn't mean you ruined the relationship. It means that the only thing that kept it going was your energy. Then it's not love, it's attachment.

The most valuable and important thing in your life is energy. Time is not limited, energy is. What you give time and attention to defines your existence. Make your life a temple where only people who are capable of caring, listening, and communicating are allowed. Don't save anyone. It's not your job to give your life to others because you feel sorry for them, or to others because you "have to". Your job is to realize that you are the master and lover of your destiny, to decide that you deserve real friendship, true commitment, and complete love with people who are healthy and thriving. Then sit in silence for a minute... and watch how quickly things begin to change.