If she is calm, confident, whole and harmonious - then her man will be the same.
If she is insecure, angry, disappointed or depressed inside herself - then the man next to her will be the same.
The other half - reflects our inner state, attitude to ourselves and the world.
A man reflects what we ourselves do not recognize in ourselves and what we do not want to pay attention to.
Look closely at your soul, understand its most closed corners and then everything will become clear in family life.
When you start to take care of yourself, to improve yourself - then the man will begin to change.
In the process of self-knowledge - the most important thing is not to deny yourself, to forgive for shortcomings and to love! As well as to love the shortcomings of the partner.
The great yogi Swami Vivekananda said: "Our first duty is not to despise ourselves. To move forward, we must first believe in ourselves and then in God."
We love to give ourselves - to family, children, society, God, but often forget about ourselves. The desire to take care of others should not be greater than the desire to take care of yourself. It is very easy to put pressure on a woman - on her conscience, on her sense of guilt, on her wrongness. And a woman, as a natural mother goddess, often has no boundaries - where another person is right, and where he is being impudent and crossing her personal boundaries.
According to psychology, a woman's state of guilt is the path to death. Giving more than she can, she begins to fade, becomes irritated, aggressive, begins to get sick. This state is not useful either for the woman herself or for those around her. Do not despise yourself, love and appreciate yourself, let your inner world take care of itself!
© Dana Satori
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